What Do You Truly Think
About Happiness???
Yes, I am GOING THERE! Let’s have an honest and open conversation about happiness. Is it achievable, it is all that fluff, it is unattainable, etc. The books I have read on happiness had me finding it or trying to achieve it or pursue it. I even went so far as to stalk it a few times!
The reason I called this post “All That Fluff” is because happiness to me is sometimes like cotton candy!
- You CRAVE It.
- It Comes in a PRETTY Package.
- You are EXCITED to have it.
- It Makes You HAPPY and BRINGS You Joy and Pleasure.
- Before You Can Blink it is ALL GONE!
“Fluff”
Some days I cannot find the “happi” in happiness!
“Fluff”
I start thinking and asking questions. For instance . . .
- Is it self gratification vs. instant gratification?
- Is it about wants and needs?
- Is it about fulfillment and purpose?
- Is it about beliefs and values as well as perceptions and insights?
- Is it about communication, interaction and connection?
- Is it about finding that balance and stability mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually?
- Is it about your whole, well being?
I like to believe that happiness comes from a personal level and not a materialistic level! I like to think that all these questions play a part! I want to discover my sense of self, especially in living from within. I need that sense of belonging, sense of community and sense of purpose, especially in living my life to the fullest.
I also know it is not all about me! That I am part of something bigger too! It is about tapping into my values and what matters to me. It is about being open in my perceptions and learning to adapt. It is about really connecting on many levels!
One BIG World (Photos by RSheridan)
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February 21st, 2014 at 9:46 AM
I LOVE the comparison between happiness and cotton candy! It’s a perfect description, Renee. Happiness is what you make it. Some days, you feel it more than others and some times material things can help make you a little happier. I’m a little selfish when it comes to happiness… I take as much as I can get and don’t feel the least bit guilty about overindulging. However, the best part of happiness is sharing with others. Have a very happy Friday! 🙂
February 21st, 2014 at 11:26 AM
Jessica –
Ahhh – thanks so much – every once in a while my creative writing hits it out of the park -ha! Loving your comment and remember to share:)
Happy Weekend – Renee
February 21st, 2014 at 11:04 AM
You nailed it in that materialism does not equate happiness. Happiness comes with appreciating that which you have and those you love and sharing yourself with others and following your passions, etc.
February 21st, 2014 at 11:25 AM
Love your comment Audrey:)
Happy Weekend – Renee