Being More Open
I know the one thing I do for myself is try! I use to feed into the mind set of SOME DAY and then throw myself a pity party when things did not work in my favor. Hello! NOTHING will be in my favor if I do not even try. Start TODAY!
Accepting My Mistakes and My Failures
On this journey of self I came upon a pretty significant roadblock; failure! A huge part of this whole perfection mind set of mine is not wanting to make mistakes or even fail. There is also that wanting everything to be right too. I need to be okay with that and be more open to learning and growing from those mistakes and failures!
I already do not care for rejection! Then there is wrapping my mind around failure too! I am the type of person that sees failure as the end to something. Instead of the beginning, the possibilities and the opportunities. I see it as a personal attack and a shake down or even a take down!
I have to remind myself that making mistakes and experiencing failures may lead to good things in my life! I am my worst enemy and criticizer as well as my biggest judger and rejecter. I have to give it my time and my energy. I have to go with it and see where it leads me. I have to not give up when the going gets tough!
Embracing Who I Am
Who Is Challenging Who? Who Is Chasing Who?
I think I do pretty well in picking myself up and dusting myself off! However, I usually do not pick up what put me down and just move on to the next thing. How will I ever know what I can do and what I want if I do not get out there and just do it, go for it and achieve it! I just have to start and take action.
I am learning to lean into that discomfort and not be overwhelmed by the unknowns! I cannot grow as a person if I just choose to live in comfort and ease. I do like stability and security though. I do like setting my level of risk too. I enjoy a bit of a challenge, especially if it motivates and stimulates as well as satisfies and fulfills me! I enjoy working through the process and problem solving.
The GREATEST gift I can give myself is to believe in myself! This includes listening from within, following my heart and trusting my gut. I need to make a commitment to myself in being there for myself in EVERYTHING that I do! This includes being true to who I am, believing in my self worth, trusting that I am enough, and just having faith in myself.
(Photos by RSheridan)
May 25th, 2014 at 7:34 AM
Believing in yourself is the beginning of finding inner peace. This is what we all should strive for.
I recently saw the slogan (on some slides): Be brave, don’t doubt.
May 25th, 2014 at 7:38 AM
Love your comment as well as the slogan 🙂 Here’s to Striving and Living From Within!!!
May 25th, 2014 at 11:27 AM
It could be so easy for all of us. We just need to think, relax, and do the right thing. 🙂
May 25th, 2014 at 4:02 PM
Loving your comment 🙂
May 25th, 2014 at 8:41 AM
I also struggle with failure and rejection, I’m not the type who can just let it roll off my back like some can. I’ve found that starting with small goals or projects allows me to accomplish things without the stress of thinking about what’s next. I try to put all my energy into the task at hand and if things go well I’m more prepared for the next project. It’s hard to be kind to yourself, I have the terrible habit of comparing myself to others and I never come out on top. I’m trying to get away from that but it’s a struggle.
May 25th, 2014 at 4:04 PM
Thanks for stopping by and commenting! I appreciate you sharing your experiences 🙂
Take Care – Renee
May 25th, 2014 at 8:45 AM
Definitely the best learning comes from when things go wrong. Embracing it is grace personified.
May 25th, 2014 at 4:01 PM
So Very TRUE 🙂
May 25th, 2014 at 10:10 AM
So true, believe in oneself.
May 25th, 2014 at 4:02 PM
🙂
May 25th, 2014 at 6:30 PM
We celebrate failure here! Not just accept it, but actively rejoice in it, because we know we learn massively more from what we get wrong than what we get right! 🙂 Here’s a post I wrote a couple of years ago – please delete if it’s not ok, thanks Renee.. x
May 26th, 2014 at 8:04 AM
Loving your comment and will check out your link 🙂
May 26th, 2014 at 8:08 AM
Celia –
I will remember for the future to not only embrace, but celebrate failure. Thanks for the reminder and making me think of it from a different perspective!
Take Care – Renee
May 26th, 2014 at 7:06 AM
I am about to lean in and embrace the unknown. There is a big move ahead. Wish me luck!
May 26th, 2014 at 8:05 AM
Your recent post was a bit mysterious – Wishing You the BEST – Good Luck 🙂
May 26th, 2014 at 11:39 AM
Think you probably know now from previous comments. I’ll have to back pedal on my blog for a bit to finish up my US stories which will seem totally confusing. Still. That is my current state of mind.
May 26th, 2014 at 2:10 PM
Keep Breathing and Hang In For the Adventures 🙂
May 26th, 2014 at 3:11 PM
I take a deep breath every time I read a comment from you. You’re keeping me sane!
May 27th, 2014 at 8:36 AM
Happy to Help 🙂
May 27th, 2014 at 11:54 AM
Wanting to be right…oh, yes, need to work on that one.
May 27th, 2014 at 1:11 PM
You are not alone and gets me in trouble more than I care to admit at times – ha!
Happy Week 🙂 – Renee