May Speak LOUDER Than Words!
I have been thinking about action and reaction! I have been thinking about complimentary and collision. I have been thinking about love and anger as well as kindness and rudeness. I have been thinking about less, more and just right!
We will affect others either positively or negatively each and every day! We also know that we cannot change people into what we want or need!
Peekaboo
I know I do not put my best smile out there each and every day for myself and other people! I really do not care to turn into that person, but I do. I also know that there is more than me, myself and I living in this world. I think about how I add value and impact the people I encounter on a daily basis!
What action or reaction do I spark in people? I can either make someone’s day or have them running in the opposite direction. I know that is extreme, but I have encountered people that I want to get away from for multiple reasons. What do I want that action or reaction to be?
My actions, my moods and my energies speak volumes! My opinions and my judgements speak even louder!
Remember To Laugh (Out Loud too)
I realize that not everyone clicks or interacts well with each other, however; that does not mean it automatically turns into a negative action, reaction or impact! A simple courtesy works best in these situations. If that does not work then just simply keep on walking and be the bigger person in that moment. Remember that you have control in the way you act or react even if you have no control over the other person!
It is very much a give and take when it comes to interactions with other people! You can either work together or against each other. There is going to be conflict, confrontation and even a collision at times. However, how you communicate, how you respond through your actions and how you control your actions determines a successful or not so successful outcome!
I know I like myself much better when I share the good and the positive! I have my moments where I am ON and I have my moments where I am just OFF. When I am just OFF I remind myself to get back on track or ruin the rest of my day. I truly want to enjoy each and every day because today is a gift to be treasured and not squandered on the petty stuff that is really not worth my time or energy!
Sea Lion Yoga – Soaking Up the Sun (Photos by RSheridan)
August 29th, 2014 at 9:42 AM
I used some of your advice yesterday when I encountered a less than friendly woman at a restaurant. The restaurant and food were great, though, once I looked past the person who greeted me.
August 29th, 2014 at 10:37 AM
I am happy to hear that – thanks so much 🙂 Happy Weekend – Enjoy!
August 29th, 2014 at 11:30 AM
Thank you for this. When I turned 50, I determined this was the best I was going to look, the best I was going to feel. If I didn’t start enjoying my life each and every day, when was I going to start? I started right then. Over the past 10 years, I’ve opened myself up to absorbing joy and giving it. This has been my best decade ever!
August 29th, 2014 at 1:09 PM
WOW – You are such an INSPIRATION Kate – thanks so much for sharing your experiences 🙂 I am taking the bull by the horns as I end my 30’s and approach my 40’s. Conquer Today Every Day – Happy Weekend – Enjoy!!!
August 29th, 2014 at 2:43 PM
Fabulous post and so true. Like you I very much aim to leave people with a wee bit more positive energy than before our encounter. Can be as easy as a big smile. Happy weekend Renee!
August 29th, 2014 at 3:02 PM
Loving your comment 🙂 Happy Weekend – Enjoy!
August 29th, 2014 at 3:07 PM
Renee I believe you can start with a smile, it has a ripple effect, you can watch it grow and rollover each person. Some days we can’t be this cheery but I still try. My mother has a smile for everyone she meets and she is the most positive force I know. How lucky am I?
August 31st, 2014 at 7:28 AM
Very Lucky 🙂
August 30th, 2014 at 6:07 AM
A smile is a powerful weapon and so easy to use!
August 31st, 2014 at 7:29 AM
🙂
August 30th, 2014 at 9:30 AM
I needed this post today, Renee. I have been struggling to deal and understand another’s actions. It’s frustrating to not know where you stand with someone and even more frustrating when their actions contradict each other. I guess it boils down to how I choose to react to it all. Today, I’m choosing to smile. 🙂 Have a great weekend! xoxo
August 31st, 2014 at 7:29 AM
I believe you are choosing well my friend 🙂 Wishing You the Best – Take Care xoxo