Constantly Trying to Fix Your Life
I know I am a fixer of my life. I can screw with it as well as screw it up in so many ways. I really do not need any additional help. I can either be a hindrance or a help to myself.
I am learning to let go and just surrender. Just accept myself and embrace who I am. I want to be accepted, but not if I have to compromise myself. I want to experience “being” instead of “acting up” when it comes to living my life!
Being . . .
In “acting up” you are trying to “live up” to someone else’s version of your life. You have given up control, lost faith in your core values and given up a little trust in yourself too. This “acting up” stems from various sources in your life. The one source you should be listening to is your inner voice, live from within yourself!
You cannot dwell on what other people think about you or it will drive you nutso! Love yourself and that love will shine outwards. Care about yourself and how you feel. The people who are meant to be in your life will be there because of how you treat yourself!
You have to accept yourself and live your own life. You need to tune in to your hopes and dreams again. You have to find that drive and passion that makes you want to just “be” out there living it! You want to experience growth and gain life experiences.
Greeting and Embracing the Day (Photos by RSheridan)